• Getting In Our Spouse’s Way | Feedback Wednesday #600

    It's Feedback Wednesday so we answer listener's emails and voicemails. Thank you to all our listeners for being part of our journey to 600 EPISODES!!!!!!! A 50 something husband emails…

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  • Connection . . . or Idealized Togetherness?

    What’s one of the biggest obstacles to experiencing intimacy in your marriage? More often than not, the answer is unrealistic togetherness expectations, i.e., idealized or fantasy togetherness. I can hear…

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  • Focus On The How

    What is it that creates the intensity in certain conversations with your spouse? What moves a conversation between two people from the issue at hand into personal meltdown – emotional…

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  • Keeping Your Cool

    I know you’ve been there before, you’re in the midst of an intense discussion with your spouse and it moves beyond a conversation about the issue at hand and gets…

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  • Sexy Marriage Radio Turns 11!!!!

    Today is a big day. Sexy Marriage Radio is celebrating our 11th birthday today!!!! Celebrate with us because you are part of this with us. The SMR Nation is such…

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  • Me vs We

    You walk in the door and are greeted with… “Honey, we need to talk about a few things.” If you’re human, your insides immediately tighten and your defenses prepare for…

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  • Relationships Are Easy

    Relationships are actually pretty easy. I didn’t always believe this. In fact, I used to believe relationships are hard work. I’ve written these very words many times. You’ve probably even…

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  • Natural dynamics in every relationship

    There are natural dynamics at work in every marriage and relationship. How do these impact you? Here’s a quick preview of one of our upcoming video courses, Desire Matters Course.…

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  • A Better Framework

    This is a common email I receive. A wife asked for help. She felt stuck in her marriage and wanted me to give her advice. While I do work with…

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  • Doctor people and coach people

    *The following is taken and adapted from Mark Manson. For years I have been producing content on Sexy Marriage Radio and the blog aimed at helping people take the next…

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