• Every Day, Take Action

    Marriage isn’t always rainbows and butterflies. But what do you do when married life hands you a load of junk? Start with a deep breath … own your own junk,…

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  • Make your marriage a priority and your kids benefit

    If there is one thing that will throw a wrench in married-life, it’s kids. Don’t get me wrong, kids are a tremendous blessing and source of fun and laughter, but…

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  • You Can Not Not Communicate

    The number one issue voiced by most couples is, “We have trouble communicating.” It’s a common complaint. And many couples think they would benefit from some communication training. Many seem…

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  • Escape In To Marriage

    As I listened to an online radio station playing through my computer on a Saturday morning, an oldie but goodie came on. Escape (The Piña Colada Song) by Rupert Holmes…

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  • Fire Your Marketing Department

    In the video above Esther Perel eloquently explains why desire is so difficult to sustain in a long-term relationship, mainly because eroticism exists in the space between two people. To…

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  • Paperback Versions Now Available

    Today I’m happy to announce that both of my books are now available in paperback. If you didn’t know about my books, now is your chance. A Simple Marriage Field…

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  • I wish you would stop …

    Every marriage, every relationship, is fraught with perpetual problems and issues. It’s common that I will counsel a couple for several sessions, they reach their desired goals, and leave with…

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  • The Proper Use Of The Tongue

    Nature has given us two ears, two eyes, and but one tongue – to the end that we should hear and see more than we speak. ~ Socrates Calm down.…

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  • The Inca Trail and Marriage

    In Peru there’s a trail you can hike from the city of Cusco to the Sacred City of Machu Picchu. Known as the Inca Trail, it’s often referred to as…

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  • The Four Facets of Intimacy

    You and I are created as unique, whole, integrated human beings. You can’t separate the physical, emotional, relational, or spiritual parts of you from each other any more than you…

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