2 words for a better marriage

Post written by Corey Allan

If you venture far into the arena of the blogosphere, you’ll be inundated with all types of awesome speak. Especially if you visit some of the larger blogs on self-development and improvement.
I’ve got no issue with people wanting to share their thoughts on how to make life better. It’s just that sometimes we make things too complicated.
Why does it have to be so hard?
What if two words could improve your marriage?
Two words can … and will.

  1. Think big (look at the big picture of life and marriage, it’s not all about you)
  2. Get over (forgive again and again)
  3. Choose battles (not everything is worth the fight)
  4. Just stop (get help if you need)
  5. Shut up (there’s wisdom in knowing when to be quiet)
  6. Move on (let go of the past and live in the moment)
  7. Be smart (use your brain in every situation)
  8. Common sense (uh, hello, befriending an ex-girlfriend on Facebook is just plain stupid)
  9. Show up (there’s value to being together)
  10. Be present (engage your spouse when your together, don’t be lost at work or elsewhere)
  11. Grow up (this is what marriage is all about!)

Got two words to add?

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Dr. Corey Allan
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Dr. Corey Allan

Corey Allan, PhD, LMFT

Marriage therapist, author, and host of Sexy Marriage Radio since 2012. 20+ years in private practice working with couples and individuals. Differentiation-based approach. Remote sessions worldwide.