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I’m Corey, this is my wife Pam.

Here to help couples spend their days fully alive.

We believe couples can be in control of their relationships, not the other way around. We can all remove the “ceiling” of our relationships. Let’s reach our potential, and then surpass it!

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I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Professional Life & Relationship Coach. Pam’s my other half, my rock, my co-host, and the main reason our podcast isn’t a snore.

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The 2024 SMR Getaway

The 2024 SMR Getaway

Registration is open for the 2024 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Click here to join us. Come spend four days with the Pam and I and lots of other couples from the SMR Nation in DFW - June 13-15th This is one of the best marriage conferences/retreats/seminars out there...

Unveiling the Shadows: Understanding Normal Marital Sadism

Unveiling the Shadows: Understanding Normal Marital Sadism

This week I want to explore a topic that might make some uncomfortable, but it's a crucial aspect of understanding the intricacies of long-term relationships: normal marital sadism. This is also the topic we cover on SMR (Normal Marital Sadism #666). Now, before you...

Trauma and Safety In Marriage

Trauma and Safety In Marriage

In this week's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio (Yes, But ... #664), we dive deeper into a crucial topic that affects many couples: the discovery of a spouse's pornography use and the ensuing fallout. A listener's email the episode prior sparked a discussion about the...

Navigating Past Your Past

Navigating Past Your Past

As a therapist for over two decades and a podcast host for half that time, I've witnessed firsthand the profound impact that our past experiences can have on our present relationships. In this week's episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, I had the pleasure of speaking with...

A Three-Way Marriage: A SMR Manifesto For Christian Lovers

A Three-Way Marriage: A SMR Manifesto For Christian Lovers

Last week I re-released my first manifesto, A SMR Manifesto. It contained a wealth of information regarding marriage and its design to help us grow into better people. It's the premise behind everything at SMR. But there is also a very important undercurrent running...

A SMR Manifesto

A SMR Manifesto

Dear fellow "I'm interested in experiencing all marriage has to offer" types .... If you're new here, or even if you've been around the Nation for over a decade now -- I present to you your own copy of A SMR Manifesto. ----> Click here to open or download the...

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